The newer woman I'm not sure if she's keeping it secret. Most I can say is that the person reminded her of her ex.

And with the girl who wound up with a friend, she might have a boyfriend still? It's complicated. Do relationships count if half of the couple goes home for several months with no idea whether they'll come back?

Maybe the way to deal with the kidnappings is refuse to be humiliated. [Or you know, that could make it worse since you might go like Smoker and refuse to wear a shirt even as a woman and then refuse to be embarrassed about the fact, because fuck the Malnosso, he's not changing for them. Just saying...]