That is really personal. Maybe the Malnosso were scanning her mind or searching her subconscious for anything to use in the future. [ ...Man, this theory is blown up. ]

As for the girl, I guess it depends if they ever return or not, or if the person still has hope they'll return.

Heh. Well, humiliation is a reaction not an emotion. It'd be pretty hard to refuse embarrassment though some people might be hardy enough to get it done. [ Well, she doesn't know about Smoker's predicament yet so she can't judge that, even though she'd certainly question the logistics of it. Can't you cover up?! For the children?! ]