Because for all my anger-management issues, I DO channel it into positive outlets. It's why my job comes first and justice is so important. I already know why I trust women easier but that works fine for me. I work well with them and that also works out for me. So far you haven't explained why any of this is a downside. Yes, I admire Karen for being strong without wanting to pound someone's face into pavement. Why shouldn't I? That is a strength. I likewise admire Yachiru's ability to restrain herself when it goes against so much of her instincts and what she's been taught.

I'm not a woman, I'm not ever going to BE a woman and I'm not going to stop being me but you haven't said anything that makes me thing being me is a bad thing.

It'd be like if I said you're a leopard bastard with questionable self control, overwhelming bloodlust, and a disturbing bird fetish. It's obvious to you, why should it phase you any?