It is what I want. It's just... sudden. Not that that's a bad thing.

In case you hadn't worked it out, he was a little less fucked in the head when I was with him. And then I cut off contact for a long time.

He's a cunning bastard. Just try not to let him see that it hurts. The trick is to keep your cool and pretend you're not bothered, so that he'll change tactics.